Last updated: June 2024  

Overall result

5,0

Field test

Proportion of women

Women's initiative

Price/Performance

587 reviews

  •  Very well-known site with many users
  •  Many female members
  •  Very high chances of real affairs
  •  Huge savings with longer subscriptions 
  •   Limited capacity for male members

Overall result

4,8

Field test

Proportion of women

Women's initiative

Price/Performance

613 reviews

  •  Strong website with a large user community 
  •  Many responsive women
  •  Registered users consistently active
  •  Date guarantee for premium users
  •   Older female members

Overall result

4,6

Field test

Proportion of women

Women's initiative

Price/Performance

457 reviews

  •  A lot of young women looking for older men
  •  Women are interested in real meet-ups
  •  Insider tips for affairs
  •  Appealing look of website
  •   Not the site for the love of your life

Overall result

4,5

Field test

Proportion of women

Women's initiative

Price/Performance

544 reviews

  •  Many older women looking for real dates
  •  Well-known portal with many users
  •  High response rate of contacted women
  •  Making contact is simple and straightforward
  •   Limited free use

Overall result

4,4

Field test

Proportion of women

Women's initiative

Price/Performance

513 reviews

  •  Women looking for fetish-dates
  •  A lot of young women (under 30)
  •  Anonymity comes first
  •  Registration for male users not available from time to time
  •   Few free features

Overall result

4,1

Field test

Proportion of women

Women's initiative

Price/Performance

499 reviews

  •  One of the biggest dating websites in UK
  •  Almost no fake members
  •  Above-average response rate
  •   Look of website takes getting used to
  •   Pictures are only shown exclusively

Individually checked

The male members of our team have personally tested these online sites. This way, we wanted to gain a realistic impression.

Evaluated with care

All reviews are written by ourselves with care and are based on our personal experiences of each specific website.

Best communication

We attach great importance to the communication with female members. This is the only way we can really recognise fake members.

How we test dating sites

In order to write authentic reviews about the sites presented here, we have been testing them ourselves over a long period of time.

For this purpose, several male members of our team volunteered to be test subjects; they signed up as premium/VIP members, filled out their profiles on the respective sites and uploaded an engaging profile picture. This is the only way to ensure a realistic impression of the site, particularly regarding the total of active members, the ratio of men to women and the confidentiality of the site.

In order to get a feel for the response rate of women, we came up with a greeting message for the respective websites and sent it to a suitably large number of women in our area.

After about two weeks we then checked what we got back in terms of responses and whether these were from real members. We highlighted positives and negatives and marked them as keypoints of the sites above. After careful consideration, we decided to remove seemingly free websites from our test as these generally only lead to poor results. On these (initially) free sites, the response rates of women were either too low to be considered or the responses were written by fake members in order to rip off male members one way or another. Most of the time, they tried to lure us to other dubious websites or to persuade us to send money to them. From this we concluded that men who are actually looking for women to cheat with would be better advised signing up to one of the paid sites, though they may seem unappealing at first glance.

Ultimately, it is worth remembering that it's usually only the members who are really serious about hooking up who join these paid sites. Women without any serious intentions or even fake members usually shy away from spending money on these sites, which serves as natural filter.

Nonetheless, there are still better and worse sites for cheating among the paid versions, with more or fewer women signed up. With this in mind, we review the hottest sites of the moment in order to form our own opinion.

What kind of women can be found on these sites?

We asked ourselves this same question at the beginning of our research. One often hears that it's only fakes or women with financial interests who are found on online dating websites. It is true that there are many sites to which these prejudices apply. These kind of sites have immediately landed on our blacklist. You will find only real women on all the sites listed in our highest ranking sites as shown above.

But who do you find here? Our results were really surprising. Everyone who signs up to these sites is first of all anonymous and, unless they wish otherwise, are not recognisable to their neighbours or other people in their social circles. Each and every member decides to what extent they wish to be recognisable on these sites. Nevertheless, many female members like to strut their stuff within the bounds of the protected premium area, which can only be accessed by other premium members.

Many of these women are in relationships themselves, married, or already divorced. In general, it's the case that almost all of them are looking for an adventure and men who have the same interests and preferences. Bearing this in mind, these sites present an ideal field of exploration in order to find possible commonalities even before a first contact is made. Many of the above-mentioned dating websites work with a set of specifications where users can fill in their interests and wishes in advance.

Which site suits my type?

Considering the large number of dating websites out there, men in particular often wonder which site they should register with. This is usually connected with their own motivation for the search. Naturally, it is impossible to take into account all interests in our test, however we tried to cover what we considered to be the most important criteria. This is why our ranking is based on those types of criteria that play an important role for every male user, such as the proportion of women signed up or the response behaviour of the women contacted. In principle, our readers can be sure that they will meet real women on the websites reviewed here.

Nonetheless, we often find that members give up too quickly if a date has not been arranged in the first few days. We recommend remaining calm at first! Patience is absolutely essential, in our opinion, besides a fully filled-in profile (including picture). Our male members in particular should bear in mind that most of the registered women are in relationships. As a result, it is often not possible for them to check their inbox daily and they instead have to wait for a private moment.